My New DIL Laughed at My Granddaughter’s Gift as ‘Cheap’ at the Birthday Party — She Had No Idea What I Had Planned for Her in Return
In the time when Sylvia’s granddaughter is publicly humiliated by her new daughter-in-law, she is forced to choose between remaining silent and confronting the situation. What follows is a quiet but dramatic reckoning that shocks the family to its very core, demonstrating that sometimes the most intense love comes from those who have been observing for the longest amount of time.
In addition to being sixty years old, my name is Sylvia. My upbringing instilled in me the belief that one should refrain from speaking if they do not have something positive to say.
For the most of my life, I lived in this manner, suppressing my beliefs and suffering through pain in order to maintain the integrity of my family.
This time, however?
My granddaughter was the target of someone’s attention this time. I also realized that there are some times when it is appropriate to talk.
His name is Felix, and he is a widower. After a long and difficult fight against cancer, his wife, Nora, lost her battle with dying five years ago. She was the type of lady who could make others feel more at ease just by being in their presence, and he loved her with all his heart.
I cherished her as if she were my own daughter. Despite the passage of five years, there are still occasions when I go for the phone to contact her, only to halt in the middle of the dialing process.
My voice would mumble, “I miss you,” to the empty room that surrounded me.
Ivy, their daughter, is now 13 years old. The only thing that distinguishes her from Nora is that she has brown eyes that are gentle, a grin that is quick and pleasant, and a tendency of tilting her head slightly when she is intrigued about something. Ivy is a kind and lovely person, much like her mother.
It is as if one is seeing Nora relive her life in subtle and unassuming ways.
When Felix remarried, it was two years ago.
All I wanted was to have hope. In all honesty, I had high hopes. The thought occurred to me that my kid deserved to find love once again, or at the very least, friendship.
The loss There was something that Nora had chiseled out of him.
Over a cup of coffee, I suggested to my friend Clara that perhaps this may assist him in his recovery. “And Ivy… she seems to be in need of the presence of a woman in the home. Someone who will really care about her feelings.”
Instead, he tied the knot with Vivienne.
Vivienne is stunning, but she does it in a manner that is well crafted and seems to be staged. Her auburn hair is neat, her nails are manicured, and she wears luxury purses that are a perfect match for her shoes. Rather of being in a kitchen, she has the appearance of being featured in a magazine spread.
Once upon a time, Felix shared with me, “She plans luxury events, Mom.” “High-end merchandise,” The fact that she has such a keen eye for detail is quite remarkable.
I enquired about the event’s content.
He shrugged and said, “Weddings.” Launches of corporations… The Galas. That is the kind of stuff.”
It’s a fact that I never received a definitive response. It was always the case that Vivienne’s account of her career was… elusive, as if she was attempting to make it seem more impressive than it really was.
I was aware of it from the very beginning. A shiver, to be closer. It was a rigidity that I was unable to identify.
Vivienne did smile at Ivy, but the warmth that she felt did not make its way into her eyes. As if they were seeing someone execute an act of love without being aware of the processes involved. In front of Felix, she always behaved in a nice manner.
When he left the room, however, the temperature of the air dropped. In each and every encounter, there is no yelling or snapping; rather, there is a quiet rejection.
The comments soon started to come in.
Vivienne had something to say when Ivy donned her favorite softball tournament t-shirt, which had fallen into a soft state over the course of many years of recollections.
“You are kind. Did your mother actually purchase that item? It seems that there are some individuals who are unable to differentiate between stylish and tacky, Ivy. “Do not be concerned; I am here to direct you at this moment,” she hissed.
In the event that Ivy arrived at breakfast with her hair in a sloppy bun, Vivienne would make a remark.
What do you mean, you are following in your mother’s footsteps and never combing your hair, I see? Ivy, I have seen photographs. Your mother’s hair was a complete mess at all times.
After spending the whole week studying, the poor girl would be subjected to Vivienne’s sarcastic comments if she received a grade of B+ on a test.
“You should put forth more effort to learn, sweetheart… Unless, of course, you want to follow in your mother’s footsteps and establish yourself as a total nothing.
The tone of voice was always whispered, the tone was always faint, and it was never nice.
On the other hand, I witnessed everything. All of the digs, all of the glances, and all of the eye rolls. And despite this, I did not speak out. There was a part of me that was afraid that Felix wouldn’t believe me, or even worse, that pointing it out may result in a rift between themselves and Ivy.
I told myself, “Sylvia, don’t stir the pot,” and I meant it. Make sure that Felix is not forced to choose between his mother and his bride. To make matters even worse, between his wife and their daughter.”
Ivy, being the kind lady that she is, did not utter a single thing. She would just lower her head, blink aggressively, and respond with a voice that was hardly audible above a whisper.
Then, Vivienne celebrated her fortieth birthday.
For obvious reasons, she arranged a party for herself. She leased a private room at a high-end restaurant, where the wait staff wore vests and the drinks were served with flower petals that tasted like they were edible. Extremely expensive and out of this world was the cake.
The list of guests was not short. Her physical trainer, her yoga teacher, her assistant, and pals with names like Lila, Margot, and Sienna were among those who were there. Her professional colleagues from her events firm were also present.
Then, there was the one of us.
For weeks, Ivy had been conserving the money she earned from babysitting. For her stepmother, she wanted to present her with something of significance. The cream-colored hand-woven shawl that she selected was reminiscent of Nora’s bridal attire in terms of its softness and warmth.
I was the one who brought Ivy here to the artisan store. When she saw it, she gleamed with joy.
She said, “Grandma, this is the gift in your hands!”
“I think so, too, my darling,” I said, hoping in silence that the lady would at least acknowledge the thought that went into the gesture.
In a very cautious manner, Ivy folded it, then she wrapped it in tissue paper and slid it into a silver bag that had a ribbon that shook slightly in her fingers.
In the vehicle, Ivy said, “She’s going to like it,” but she was more concerned with me than she was with me. It seems to me that she is going to look forward to it.
I leaned out and softly kissed her hand as I grabbed for it.
“Baby, she’ll see that you have a lot of heart in it,” I added. “And that is the only thing that matters.”
We came a little bit earlier than expected. Ivy sat next to me at the large table that was covered in linen. She was holding the present bag in her lap as if it were going to fall out of her grasp if she let go of it. She moved her head in the direction of the door each time it opened.
Twenty minutes after the scheduled time, Vivienne arrived at the event wearing a golden cocktail dress that sparkled beneath the chandeliers, giving the impression that she was walking a catwalk rather than turning forty. Her heels made a harsh clicking sound on the tiles as she air-kissed her way down the table, laughing too loudly and paused for photographs before continuing.
Ivy remained quiet as she observed her from the side of me, her fingers clenching the bag that was sitting on her lap. I moved closer to her and removed a stray strand of hair off her jawline.
In a low voice, I muttered, “She hasn’t even opened it yet.” Baby, you must not allow your anxieties to steal your pride. You have acquired a lovely present for her.
It took a long time to finish the food. Not only was it lengthy and raucous, but it was also packed with Vivienne’s anecdotes, the type in which she laughed the most at her own punchlines.
Ivy softly picked at her spaghetti as Felix struggled to stay up with her energy and smiled through each story. Meanwhile, Felix’s eyes flickered from the present pile to Vivienne’s painted nails. Felix was trying to keep up with her energy.
When Vivienne reached the halfway point of the second course, she clapped her fists.
In a vivacious voice, she said, “Gifts!” Let’s have a peek at what love looks like when it’s wrapped in paper!
The table was filled with laughter as it spread around the room.
At the same time as the waiter was filling her glass, Vivienne opened a bottle of champagne that was so pricey that the waiter held it like a baby. The next item was a leather tote. After that, designer fragrances. Additionally, jewels boxed in velvet.
Afterward, she arrived to Ivy’s present.
In an attempt to avoid getting her clothes muddy, Vivienne took the shawl out of her bag and held it up with two fingers.
The tone of her voice carried when she replied, “Well.” It is my pleasure, Ivy. On the other hand, I must state… When you think about it, I am now your mother.
A hush descended. Even her close pals became reserved. It was the type of thing that you would usually keep to yourself, especially in public… not in that manner.
Another thing that she said was, “You could have put in a little bit more effort into my gift.” “You should have put aside a little bit more money. Have provided me with something more… precious. On the other hand, Ivy, this is not exactly my style at all. “It’s a little bit tacky.”
When the word was said, it struck on the table like a slap.
It is ugly.
The color of Ivy’s face became red. Although her shoulders sagged and her lower lip trembled, she did not utter a single word.
As for that?
That was the moment when I collapsed.
I got to my feet. Slowly, in fact. The sound of my chair scuffing on the floor was loud enough to break the stillness that had been there.
My tone was quiet but clear, and it was steady enough to silence every discussion that was taking place in the room. “Don’t worry, Vivienne,” I murmured. It is a great surprise that I have brought for you tonight. It is something that is much larger than a shawl.
The look on Vivienne’s face changed instantaneously. It was as if she was anticipating the arrival of a box of diamonds.
After reaching inside my purse, I extracted an envelope from its contents. Printing on heavyweight paper with a blue lettering.
I did, in fact, exaggerate the situation a little bit, leading her to believe that it was intended for her. A little bit of drama is sometimes necessary for a lesson.
She accepted it with a gleaming grin that eventually disappeared.
I responded with “plane tickets.” “To a suite in Hawaii with a view of the ocean. Full payment, without a doubt. The unpleasant truth is that you and Felix are not eligible for them.
As she blinked, Vivienne said, “I… I don’t understand.”
I grinned and said, “They are here for Ivy and me.”
“Wait… what is it?” The expression on her face became rigid.
It is my intention to take Ivy on a journey to a location where she will be honored. In addition, Vivienne, I will be having a conversation with my attorney once we have returned.
In that case, why would you offer me the envelope if it is not intended for me? She displayed a pout.
My response was, “It was for you.” On the other hand, I’m going to take it back because of how you responded to Ivy’s present.
I was aware that her response to my granddaughter would be unsatisfactory or disappointing.
A brief pause transpired. It was possible to hear the sound of a champagne glass slowly clinking against a plate. Everyone at the table remained still. Even the servers were uncertain about whether they should continue serving wine or run away.
I continued, “Vivienne,” while maintaining a steady tone in my voice. For a very long time, I have refrained from speaking. If you continue to degrade a kid who has done nothing except attempt to love you, I will no longer stand by and watch. The cruel texts that you have sent to my granddaughter are all in my possession. When it comes to brutality, I’ve seen more than enough… And tonight, each and every one of you must be a witness.
On the other side of me, Ivy was still seated. As she reached under the edge of the table, her little hand, which was icy and clammy, slipped into mine. It was softly squeezed by me.
Sylvia, you are unable to take her away from me! Vivienne stutteringly spoke. He said, “She is Felix’s daughter—”
There was no one who spoke to Vivienne as she searched around the room for encouragement, but she was unsuccessful.
In response, I lifted my chin and said, “I’m not going to take her away from Felix.” “I am shielding her from you,” she said. In addition, if this necessitates initiating a legal procedure for supervised visitation or partial custody, then I will comply with their request.
Although I was aware that it would not be simple, I was certain that it would not be impossible, given the texts that I had collected and Felix’s refusal to speak.
“Mum…” Finally, Felix was able to find his voice. Is it possible that we ought to discuss this matter in private?
As a response, I said, “Oh, we will talk.” “However, it was necessary to make this statement in public. Because I want everyone in this room to be aware of the specific reason why Ivy and I will not be in attendance for dessert.
I turned to Ivy and smiled at her with a warm and happy expression. “Come on, sweetheart,” I said.
Slowly, she became upright. Although Ivy’s cheeks were still red, her back was now more straight than it had been before. She raised her chin just enough to let me know that she no longer felt like she was a tiny person. After that, she did not utter a single word as she took her silver present bag and accompanied me out of the room.
Hand in hand, we made our way out of the restaurant, passing several people who were stunned and with their mouths wide.
This morning, Vivienne sent me a text message.
When I was in front of my friends, you made me feel ashamed. “I was merely joking with Ivy,” I said.
My coffee was becoming cold on the table next to me as I gazed at the message for a considerable amount of time.
According to Vivienne, you have been “just joking” with Ivy for the last two years. You can no longer find it hilarious. Emotional abuse is what it is. I won’t let it go unnoticed, either.”
In the evening, Felix made his way over.
When he was in my living room, he acted like a boy once again.
“Mum,” he murmured, but he did not look directly into my eyes. “I believe that I was aware. I simply couldn’t bring myself to let it out. I had the impression that perhaps they might get more comfortable with one another.
“No, they won’t,” I said. “Not until adjustments are made by Vivienne. Also, not if you continue to act as if Ivy is doing well. Even now, Felix, she is in pain. It is the death of Nora that bothers her.
Slowly, he gave a nod.
“This is Vivienne, your wife,” Felix said. That makes sense to me. You are the parent of Ivy, however. If you make her choose between being safe and being quiet, she will come to despise you once you push her to make that choice.
He sat down on the sofa with a heavy weight.
“I’ll bring it up with Vivienne. Please allow me to clarify. You have my word, Mom.”
Do not make a commitment to me, I pleaded. “Nora, commit to me. She is the one who would be dissatisfied with the outcome.
Indeed, he did it.
During that trip to Hawaii, Ivy and I went together. While we were walking down the beach in our bare feet, we gathered shells to put in our pockets and let the breeze to make our hair loose and unruly. We constructed sandcastles and then watched as the tide slowly dismantled them, as if the ocean was aware that we did not need strongholds at this time but rather a gentler approach.
On the balcony, we remained up late and read novels side by side at the same time. During those seven days, she laughed more than I had heard her in the previous months. Simply said, there was no unpleasant words or glances; there was only room for a 13-year-old to exist.
During the last night, the sun began to set over the ocean in a golden and low position. While she did so, Ivy moaned and put her head on my shoulder.
She hushed, “Grandma,” as she spoke. The phrase “this was the best time ever…”
No, I did not weep. That is not the case. I went ahead and kissed the crown of her head.
My words to Ivy were, “You are deserving of so much more than this.” In addition, I will devote the rest of my life to ensuring that you comprehend it… Everything that your mother would have wanted you to have, I will make sure you have.
However, things have changed since that time.
Ivy is no longer the target of Vivienne’s mockery. If not in my presence, then certainly not. Whether it’s remorse, shame, or whatever Felix told her, I have no idea what that feeling is. To tell you the truth, I don’t care. The fact that Ivy is now a bit taller is the only thing that counts.
Felix exerts more effort. When things go wrong, he is more attentive and takes note of it. It’s true that he watches Vivienne, but he watches Ivy much more than she does.
I have not submitted any judicial paperwork. Not at this time. Maybe I won’t have to do that. It’s possible that in order for Vivienne to get her act together, that night served as a sufficient wake-up call.
However, in the event that she falls… In the event that I hear even the slightest suggestion of harshness pass from her lips to my granddaughter’s ears, what would I do?
Before Vivienne and Felix arrive, I will be prepared.
What about this grandmother? This is the last time she will ever remain quiet.