My Jobless Husband Took $6,000 from My Account to Buy Golf Clubs – Here’s How I Responded
I was working overtime to save up for our kids’ ceiling repair when my husband secretly took $6,000 of our savings to buy golf clubs. I thought that betrayal was bad enough, but what I did next changed everything.My name’s Mia. I’m 39, a nurse, and a mom of two. I work exhausting night shifts, but I’ve always shown up because someone has to. My husband, Dan, hasn’t worked since he was laid off during the pandemic. At first, I understood, but years passed, and he seemed more focused on golf than finding a job.
Last spring, a storm damaged our kids’ bedroom ceiling. Thankfully, no one was hurt, but they had to start sleeping in our room. I worked extra shifts and managed to save $8,000 to fix it.Then Dan asked me for $6,000 to buy new golf clubs for a trip. I refused, telling him the money was for our children’s room. A few days later, I checked my account—and the money was gone.
When I confronted him, he brushed it off, saying I’d earn it back. That was my breaking point. I reported the theft. The police retrieved the clubs, and I returned them for a full refund.Dan was furious, claiming I embarrassed him, but for the first time, I felt like I was standing up for myself and my kids. Eventually, he started looking for work, though it’s been slow progress.
A month later, the ceiling was finally repaired. When my kids saw their room fixed, their joy reminded me why I fought so hard.Dan might change, or he might not—but I’ve changed. I won’t carry the entire burden alone anymore. And honestly, watching him explain to his golf buddies why he couldn’t go on that trip was the sweetest justice.
